Lelian Chew left the world of private banking to plan weddings for ultra-wealthy Asian families.The Atelier & CoLelian Chew is the founder of The Atelier & Co, a Singapore-based luxury wedding planning company.She shares the importance of having weddings steeped in tradition and hearing everyone's needs.Chew doesn't believe any request is too out there — with enough time and resources.This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Lelian Chew, a private banker turned luxury wedding planner.