The author and her wife are celebrating their first Christmas together as a married couple.Photo credit: Emma Devereaux and Marissa FoleyMy wife and I got married earlier this year, and planning the wedding was stressful.Leading up to the holiday season, I felt pressure to make our first Christmas together special.After talking to her, I realized that just creating memories together was enough.After a stressful year of planning our perfect September wedding, I wasn't prepared to face additional pressure now that the holidays are approaching.