'Fairyland,' by Alysia Abbott A gay man living at the heart of San Francisco's decade-long coming-out party, he shared in the creative activism of the age of Harvey Milk. The Fairyland of her book's title thus alludes not simply to the magical life she led with her expressive father; it calls to mind the fantasy remembrance of a time before the streets of San Francisco ran with fear and fever. Dad at his most creative was, she recalls, at his most "irritable ...