Dear Abby: Should Wife Tell Husband She Donated Her Eggs?

Should wife tell husband she donated her eggs? In my early 20s, I participated in an egg donation program to support couples who were unable to get pregnant on their own. Should I tell my husband about my donations or keep quiet? The time to have spoken up was when your husband aired his feelings on the subject of sperm donation and infertility issues. If you do decide to start a family, considering that there are half siblings out there, it would be wise to advise your children to have genetic testing done with their prospective spouses. (Because there are diseases caused by recessive genes, it’s a good idea anyway.) However, unless you are sure that you want to bring a child into this world, you shouldn’t become a parent. Even though he kisses the ground I walk on, I don’t think I’d be happy in the long term with him and would always wonder if I could have done better. Nice guys who want to commit may be in short supply, but please do this nice guy a favor and end the relationship before you hurt him any more than you already have. Tradesmen can be good providers, husbands and fathers, and Aiden has much to offer a woman who can appreciate him fully.