CORAL GABLES — First, the Mauigoa family prayed, as they do before any family meeting. Then they went around the table, one by one, mother and father, three older brothers and sister, and offered thoughts on where the youngest brother, Francis Mauigoa, should play college football. “A family decision,” Francis called it, “because it affected everyone in the family.” This was last December in Hawaii, where the family met the day before signing day.