Dear Amy: My husband and I have been married for nine years. When we were newly married, we had the luxury of running after work and hiking on the weekends. We did not have a lot of stress. Fast-forward to two kids, a home, careers, and a life out of balance — and my husband has gained about 60 pounds. I am not judging him, as I completely understand the problem of stress eating, aging, and having too little time to work out. I’ll love him no matter what. My issue is his health.