Dear Eric: I’m a woman in a new relationship with a fabulous man who doesn’t seem to understand an issue I’ve brought to his attention. I noted recently that when he checks out other women in front of me, I feel disrespected. He listened and said he understood completely. I didn’t have the courage to take it a step further, which is ridiculous given my age (58) and the fact that this “problem” will likely lead to the end of our relationship.